How Do I Get Over Trust Issues?

K, first off, let me say that I cant trust guys worth ****. Everytime I let my guard down, I end up getting hurt.
But now I’ve found a guy that I THINK i can trust. (I know I asked a question earlier sayin that I dont trust him at all, but that was a while a go) and I’m afraid of getting hurt again. I want to overcome this trust thing, because its nothing personal on him, its just in my mind. I love him, and I know I’m hurting him WAY too much because of the not being able to trust him thing. And its not fair to him.
I feel like I dont deserve him, that he needs someone who can actually trust him with everything. But I’ve had some pretty shitty experiences, so its really not my fault about the whole trust thing. How can I overcome these trust issues for his benefit as well as mine? answers will be much appreciated.

1 comment to How Do I Get Over Trust Issues?

  • richard k

    we all put walls up to keep us from getting hurt. I know its hard to trust sokmeone enough tolet them down you need to follow your heart not lust. you need to be able to take the walls down for him if you know he is the one. if its not meant then you need to try to move on to the next one i know its hard to move on if that be the case.But first you need to trust in yourself that your heart will lead you the right way.have faith and belive in yourself.

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