if you met online and married so fast, before taking time to ‘know’ each other…..would a divorce be terrible (assuming one partner was not really committed to the marriage) if one partner was committed to it for security of a teenager and herself in life after 50 years old?

Marriage is tricky, I once married someone from the online personals.She was a wonderfull person and wife. We got married after a year of dating and we should have waited to know each other better. I moved on and that have been the best thing I ever done. I would say if its not working move on.